Opinions and Advice on this issue. *10 Pts*?

i think you said it all. he was young when those decisions were made, and sometimes we do things at a young age that we truly regret when we come a bit older and certainly a bit wiser. there may be a contractual agreement between the two of them that you are not aware of that came about when they seperated. with that said, yes, it is a shame that now he has nothing while she continues to live off him and in effect use him. he definitely does love you, you guys are good together and have a good relationship. that in itself is a good thing, and in the world of love and dating a rare thing. not so sure i would allow this to come inbetween you, nor bring it up many more times. he is hurt when you talk about it, just as you are hurt by the very fact that it is happening. i would let this go as one of those things you can think about, but not talk about, and come to some peace of mind with yourself to eventually just let this situation go. you can't do anything about it, and things we can't do anything about we need to let go.